We are now trapped on the school schedule since Babes has officially started school (I know it's only kindergarten, but she started really late so I'm trying to keep her in school as much as possible) so when I looked at Babes' school calendar and discovered that she had 6 days off for Thanksgiving I told DH "we've got to get out of here!" And away we went to Hong Kong.
Hong Kong is always nice, but this is the first time that I've gone to Hong Kong with a kid. A 5yr old might put up with walking until your feet fall off the first day, but on the second she's gonna complain (actually on the first she'll complain, on the second she'll cry). Don't get me wrong Babes is a pretty good traveler (actually she's a great traveler-so easy going), she loves to sight-see, and try new foods, and go to exotic locations, but she's not up for just wandering about, which is what we usually do in HK. BUT! We had a surprise for her-HK Disneyland.
As you all know, I am not a Disney hater. As a child I loved Disney, and as an adult I like it even more. Is Disney a huge soulless corporation built to suck money out of your pocket? Yes! Am I willing to put up with it? YES! Because lets face the facts, folks, they are good at what they do. Are their movies perfect? No, I wish their girls had a bit more backbone, their boys a little more personality, and who gets married after three dates anyway? BUT, as with anything Babes watches we make sure to talk about what we're watching and try to balance out Disney's message with our own.
But I appreciate Disney on a whole new level as an adult. When I was a teenager I used to live near Disneyland CA. I loved it because it was a place safe enough that my parents would let me go there by myself without asking a million and two questions. However, taking Babes there for the first time was amazing. She was all smiles and starry eyes. Because we went during the week there were virtually no lines, I don't think we waited longer than half an hour for anything. She was always front and center for every parade, and we have pictures of her dancing in the parades with the cast members. We walked into every show and got seats whenever we wanted. The food was good, and kid centric, as well as a selection wide enough that the adults were able to enjoy it as well (it was expensive, but not ridiculously so).
From the moment we stepped onto the Disneyland express train the experience was a positive one. There were tons of D-employees walking around making sure you weren't lost. They were happy to answer questions in English or Chinese. They made an effort to keep the lines running smoothly without line cutters. The park was sparkling spotless clean. And as simple as it was, all the D-employees had stickers in their pockets to hand out to little kids (and adults) whenever they felt like it.
And anyplace that gives Babes big smiles and shiny eyes, AND causes her to say "this is the best day of my life" is ok in my book.
Idleness is not doing nothing. Idleness is being free to do anything. -Floyd Dell-
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Wednesday, November 28, 2012
Monday, March 05, 2012
Thank you Disney!
As a mother of a daughter I read a lot about the evils of Disney. How the princess thing is destroying feminism and setting us all back... etc...
BUT has anyone stopped to think about the good messages Disney is sending to our little ones? One of my favorite Disney movies for teaching Babes the importance of intimacy is the The Princess and the Frog. (No, I do NOT use the word intimacy with my 4 year old). In the Disney version of this story Tiana (our heroine) gives a frog a kiss, and what happens, she turns into a frog!
At this point I turn to Babes and tell her, "you know you have to be careful who you kiss, if you kiss a frog, you'll turn into a frog". And this has been a good starting point for a discussion (that a 4 yr old can understand) about being careful who you hang out with. It has also led to discussions about kissing, and being in love with the person you kiss.
I know it's early to start this discussion, BUT, I'm trying to plant these seeds early so that when she gets older and begins to think about these things they are in the back of her mind. I *hope* that I do not get up on a religious high road and start teaching her abstinence, which is what I was taught. Abstinence is a beautiful theory, but when you're a teenager and you're faced with the choices of have sex with whomever and whenever, or ABSTAIN OR DIE! ... well... yeah. I'd like for her to have a third choice... wait for someone worth waiting for (and hopefully she won't be a teenager when "someone" shows up).
Here are some other great conversations starters from other Disney Movies:
Beauty and the Beast - Don't judge a person by how he/she looks on the outside
Tangled - Don't let someone tell you what you can't do AND you sometimes you have to step out of your comfort zone
Finding Nemo - See what happens when you don't listen to your parents?
The Princess and the Frog - You have to work hard to get what you want (also you have to balance hard work with family and life)
Also, if Babes ever asks me what it's like to fall in love I'm going to point her to the final waltz scene in Enchanted.
I think the dance scene is one of the best video descriptions of what it's like to fall in love.... The initial wonder of a touch, the first few timid steps, then slowly the crowd falls away and it's just the two of you, and the unrestrained joy of the dance....
BUT has anyone stopped to think about the good messages Disney is sending to our little ones? One of my favorite Disney movies for teaching Babes the importance of intimacy is the The Princess and the Frog. (No, I do NOT use the word intimacy with my 4 year old). In the Disney version of this story Tiana (our heroine) gives a frog a kiss, and what happens, she turns into a frog!
At this point I turn to Babes and tell her, "you know you have to be careful who you kiss, if you kiss a frog, you'll turn into a frog". And this has been a good starting point for a discussion (that a 4 yr old can understand) about being careful who you hang out with. It has also led to discussions about kissing, and being in love with the person you kiss.
I know it's early to start this discussion, BUT, I'm trying to plant these seeds early so that when she gets older and begins to think about these things they are in the back of her mind. I *hope* that I do not get up on a religious high road and start teaching her abstinence, which is what I was taught. Abstinence is a beautiful theory, but when you're a teenager and you're faced with the choices of have sex with whomever and whenever, or ABSTAIN OR DIE! ... well... yeah. I'd like for her to have a third choice... wait for someone worth waiting for (and hopefully she won't be a teenager when "someone" shows up).
Here are some other great conversations starters from other Disney Movies:
Beauty and the Beast - Don't judge a person by how he/she looks on the outside
Tangled - Don't let someone tell you what you can't do AND you sometimes you have to step out of your comfort zone
Finding Nemo - See what happens when you don't listen to your parents?
The Princess and the Frog - You have to work hard to get what you want (also you have to balance hard work with family and life)
Also, if Babes ever asks me what it's like to fall in love I'm going to point her to the final waltz scene in Enchanted.
I think the dance scene is one of the best video descriptions of what it's like to fall in love.... The initial wonder of a touch, the first few timid steps, then slowly the crowd falls away and it's just the two of you, and the unrestrained joy of the dance....
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