So yesterday I went to my first Holiday Planning meeting as a wife of a diplomat.  I have always avoided such things in the past by either working or leaving post.  But this year I am in town and my child is too big for me to say I'm too busy.  *sigh* I've crossed over and become one of "those" women.  It's not bad I guess.  I am involved in what happens over the holiday, and I can steer events towards things that I like or Babes likes, but still. 
I knew this before though.  We've only been at post 3 1/2 months and I've already been to 3 maybe 4 potlucks and I'm pretty sure we've got at least 3 more before the end of the year.  So I've decided that I need a casserole warmer.  But all the ones I have found are so old fashioned.  You know, big sunflowers on the top and what not.  I've decided that if I'm going to knit or crochet one I need to put something cool on top.  But so far I can't find a 3 dimensional pattern for a Darth Vader helmet or tie fighter.  *SIGH* I might just have to make the lame sunflowers.